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I’m a jewish lesbian with a new daughter. She’s two months old and already forcing her oppression on me. She makes me feed her every 2-3 hours and disregards my feelings on diaper changes. What do I do about my white oppressive and, quite possibly, homophobic daughter? Oh, she’s cis, I think. She hasn’t told me, but I have a feeling she’s an ableist straight cis-female.
Admin comment: This is terrible. I’m so sorry about the abuse your daughter is forcing upon you. I believe the best thing for you is to not put up with her any longer. When she wants to be fed or have her diaper changed, don’t do anything for her. In fact, stay as far away from her as possible, and always have a can of pepper spray and a firearm on hand in case she gets violent. Although I know babies’ shrieks can be incredibly triggering and traumatizing, don’t give in because she needs to learn to take responsibility for herself and do things on her own. However, if the crying becomes too damaging to your mental and emotional health, you could put a pillow on her face to muffle the sound. I wish you the best of luck avoiding the immense threat your infant poses to you.